| The Hardest Customer To Satisfy In This World 最难的客户,以满足在这个世界上 |
Alvin Phang Jun 7th, 2008 艾文攀 2008年6月7日 del.icio.us it! del.icio.us ! | | reddit it! reddit ! | | stumble it! 蹒跚! |
I was just back from a small我只是回到从一个小 workshop讲习班 today held in my home land Singapore.今天召开在我家的土地新加坡。 Unlike many days that I normally hold my seminars and previews workshop today was the most disappointed day of my life.不像许多天,我通常持有我的研讨会和讲习班的预演,今天是最失望的一天我的生活。 It has nothing to do with students signing up but I finally realized a sad fact about my own country man.它完全不与学生签约,但我终于悟到了一个可悲的事实约我自己的国家男子。 Before you read further and you happen to be a Singaporean please do not be offended, but I thought it would be great to share with everyone to know abit more about our culture之前,请先阅读进一步和您碰巧是一个新加坡,请不要得罪,但我认为这将是伟大的与大家分享,大家知道升技更多地了解我们的文化 ![]()
I been doing online business and training for about 2 years and I realized in this world there are seriously lots of weird people out there on the Internet. i做在线业务和培训约2年,我意识到在这个世界上有严重的地段的怪异的人有在互联网上。 Here are a few experiences that I myself had encounter before.这里有一些经验,我自己曾遇到前。
- People who insist to meet me immediately and keep calling for appointment and does not tell me what the reason for meeting -人民谁坚持以满足我立即和保持要求的任命并没有告诉我什么原因,为会议
- People who -人民谁 email电子邮件 me everyday for support and insist a instant response time ( some even within 2 hours )我每天的支持和坚持一即时反应时间(有些人甚至在2小时内)
- People who come knocking my house door and ask for help -谁的人来敲门我家的大门,并要求协助
- People who mail me mails to ask for help -人民谁的邮件我的电子邮件要求协助
Well you may not feel it weird but I would stay it’s pretty scary when people invade into your own private life and I dont think anyone loves that do we以及您可能不觉得奇怪,但我会留下它的相当可怕,当人们入侵到您自己的私人生活,我不要认为任何人喜欢这样,我们
Anyway my main point I like to drive in this article is to share with you guys some of my experiences training people online and offline.无论如何,我的主要点,我想,以推动在这方面的文章,是与大家分享家伙我的一些经验,训练人在线和离线。
For some of you guys may have already know, I do conducting training in Singapore and most of my students are located here.有些你们可能已经知道,我做的进行培训,在新加坡和我的大多数学生都在这里找到。 I told myself when I first started training I very much wanted to created successful students in my course and I really do spent tons of time and effort meaning my students.我告诉自己,当我第一次开始训练,我非常想创造成功的学生在我当然和我确实花了吨的时间和精力的意思我的学生。 Almost on every month I would at least meet my students about 2 to 3 times a month just to ensure they are still doing the work.几乎每个月都有我想,至少满足我的学生大约有2到3倍,每月只,以确保他们仍然是做好工作。
Recently I had a few students made quite good money online and I am really sad to say I was been made used off and I was shocked to hear that I have students requesting me to pay them money just to get a最近我有一个少数学生取得不错的金钱在线和我真的很伤心地说我是取得了使用过,我感到非常震惊听到我有学生要求我支付他们的钱只是为了获得一 testimonial推荐 from them.从他们。 For all the hard work I have done to give all the support they get from me and this is what I can in return.所有辛勤工作,我所做的让所有支持他们从我身上,这正是我可以在返回。 It really sad to see this but I finally realized it’sa truth fact Singaporeans are the hardest people to satisfy in this world.真的很可惜,看不到这个,但我终于实现了它的真相,其实新加坡人是最难的人,以满足在这个世界上。
But I would not blame them because the place where I am living now is really competitive and everyone right here is simply just killing each others just to make ends meet.但我不会责怪他们,因为地方,我的生活现在是真正具有竞争力和每个人都有权在这里只不过是刚刚杀死对方,只是入不敷支。 It’s sad but I think Singapore is not the only country that face these problems I believe other countries too它的悲哀,但我认为新加坡是不是唯一的国家,面对这些问题,我相信其他国家也 ![]()
Something in me feel really hurt that some of my students would do this to me as I ever spent hours and hours helping them but some just took it for granted.一些在我觉得真的伤害了我的一些学生便这样做是为了我,正如我以往任何时候都花了许多时间花在和时间帮助他们,但有些只是把它视为理所当然。 The worst is when I ever bother to go the extra mile to plan stuff for them to do and plan but however nothing is was done!最严重的是,当我以往任何时候都懒得去额外英里计划的东西,为他们做的和计划,但不过是没有做! Maybe I spoon feed people too much I guess也许我填鸭式饲料的人太多我猜
But I do know I have friends who train people in Indonesia are really hard working people and they do respect the trainers compared to where I am here is totally different但我知道我有朋友谁培养人在印尼确有困难的劳动人民和他们不尊重导师相比,我在哪里,在这里是完全不同的 ![]()
I hope I did not offended anyone here but just want to seek if anyone who is a trainer and is also facing this problems with your students what would you do to motivate your students to work harder for themselves to see better results in their own online business?我希望我没有冒犯任何人,但在这里只是想寻求任何人如谁是教练和也面临着这个问题与你的学生你会怎样做,以激励你的学生们努力地工作,为自己看到更好的结果,他们自己的在线业务? My goal as a trainer is to create successful students but the biggest problem I am facing now, student are addicated so much into the learning but they are just plain lazy to do the work我的目标作为一个教练机是创造成功的学生,但最大的问题是我现在面临的,学生是addicated到这么多的学习,但他们只是平原懒惰做的工作 ![]()
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You are right.你说得对。 Everyone is competing here.每个人都在这里竞争。 There is a cantonese saying “After a disciple learnt everything from the master, there is no more master”.有一个粤语说: “后,弟子据悉,一切从主人,是没有更多的掌握” 。 This is just part and parcel of our life.这是刚才的重要组成部分,我们的生活。 Think of it positively, you don’t loose much.认为这是积极的,你不宽松得多。 Instead, it is worth to know someone “better” with that little price.相反,它是值得知道有人“更好地”与小的代价。
Sorry to hear that my friend.很抱歉听到我的朋友。
But as your business grows bigger and bigger.但正如您的业务发展越来越大。 You will meet even more weird kind of people.你会满足,更怪异的种人。 And more people that will disappoint you.和更多的人认为会令你失望。 Just hang in there yah.刚刚在杭有yah 。
Alvin Huang艾文黄
That’s one of the reason why I stop doing so much training and its better to concentrate on my own online business.这是原因之一,所以我不要再做这么多的培训和其更好地专注于自己的在线业务。 Even thou the money is good when doing offline training.甚至你的钱是好时,做离线训练。
All newbies go through the same phase.所有新手经过相同的阶段。 They can’t wait to bite their master.他们不能再等下去了咬自己的主人。 Why do I know this, I trained close to 100 people every week for 1 whole year.为什么我知道这,我受过训练的接近100人,每星期为一全年。 This is especially true in the IM niche.这是尤其如此,在即时通讯利基。
Jaz Lai jaz丽
PS Rem how you used to conduct workshop on the same place and time as mine.物权的PS你如何用来进行车间就同一地点和时间,作为矿井。 Luckily you are not a newbie anymore.幸运的你是不是一个新手了。
Alvin, I have seldom met anyone with as much enthi\usiasm as you show and literally no one whom I have seen be nore helpful to other bloggers.艾文,我已很少见了任何人与高达enthi \ usiasm正如你显示和从字面上来看,没有一人,我所看到的被重复估计有帮助的其他博客。 You do have to realize one thing:你必须认识到一件事:
There are a certain group of folks online who do not _want_ to succeeed.有某组的乡亲在线谁不_want_ ,以succeeed 。 Oh, they say they do, they badger everyone they can get to listen for help and ad\vice and “free stuff”, give me “free stuff”.哦,他们说,他们这样做,他们獾,他们每个人都可以得到听取的帮助和广告\副主席和“免费的东西” ,给我“免费的东西” 。 But when you show them how to make even the simplest6 start on the road to success, they will not take the firststep.但是当你显示他们如何使连simplest6开始就成功之路,他们不会采取firststep 。 They will pester youuntil they finally get bored and then wil find the next guru to complain to.他们将pester youuntil他们终于获得钻孔和西港岛线,然后寻找下一个大师投诉。
It’s hard indeed to separate these folks in your mind from the ones who truly want to succeed and actually will take the first steps, but it is a skill you must learn, just6 the same as learning about building traffic, keywords, etc.它的努力确实分开,这些乡亲在您的心目中,从那些谁真正想成功,实际上是将采取的第一步骤,但它是一个技能,你必须了解, just6一样,学习关于建设交通,关键字等。
be generous and helpful but keep back a bit of yourself to get you over the hard spots … and realize you cna only do what you cna do … it will never be enough for some.慷慨和帮助,但保持回了一点自己让你超过硬质点…实现你中央社只有做你中央社… …它绝不会是不够的部分。
Hi guys, thanks for your kind feedback… it’s really touching to know that I have great readers and friends reading my blog嗨,大家好,感谢您的一种反馈… …它真的令人感动知道我有很大的读者和朋友读我的博客
I think I do not want to give up teaching yet as I believe to be the No.1 Trainer in the World, I first have to be no.1 in my home land first.我觉得我不想放弃教学,但因为我相信将成为第一号教练机,在世界上,我首先要一号在我的家乡土地的第一。
I think my Goal of creating 50 successful students will take at least 2 years to create.我想我的目标是创造50个成功的学生将需要至少二年创建。 Even though I trained a total of 100+ students already but so far I only have in hand about 5 or 6.即使我受过训练的共有100名学生已经+但到目前为止,我只有在手约5或6 。
I think as time goes by I will slowly improve and I like to thanked everyone for their kind feedback我认为随着时间的推移,我会慢慢改善,我想感谢大家为他们的一种反馈